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Blije vrouw, gras groener bij buurvrouw, blijdschap, smiley
Grass greener on the otherside?

She is doing so well

stop comparing and get happier
Blije vrouw, gras groener bij buurvrouw, blijdschap, smiley
Grass greener on the other side?

She is doing so well

stop comparing and get happier
Grass greener on the other side?

She is doing so well

stop comparing and get happier

If only I had

Gosh, she has done well!” You can hear yourself think. A nice house, nice kids, a nice car, and a nice job. I would like to be a little bit more like her… Or that I had something from her… Sometimes, very sometimes, it seems like someone else is better off than you. But is that really the case? Because appearances are often deceptive. What I have been able to discover over the years is: everyone has their struggles. 

Nothing is what it seems 

Often when I talked to people that I looked up to as a person, because of their great career, or their beautiful appearance, and it was an open conversation, I noticed that they also have their challenges and have less pleasant things to deal with. Everyone struggles in some area in his or her life. Nothing is what it seems. 

Perfect person, or not really? 

The world likes to present us with a picture that everything must be perfect. The Insta photos are perfect, the videos on YouTube or on TV are perfect, people just look good. But as we all know, but often fall for it: IT IS FAKE. 

Recently a friend asked if I wanted to go to a show by a celebrity who is always cheerful in front of the camera. But seeing the celebrity in real life turns out he was pretty grumpy! Just like any other human 😊. 

Don’t compare. Count your blessings. 

When you compare yourself to someone else, it doesn’t just tire you out. It almost always makes you look worse. There is always someone who is more beautiful, better, or smarter than you. But the question is: What are your talents? What Blessings Can You Count? 
Have you ever written down your blessings? No? Then I would start with that because really, you also have more than enough to be grateful for. 

Develop your talents 

So stop comparing yourself and find out how you can make more of the blessings you already have. How you can develop your talents and use them to shine more from within. So don’t focus on what you don’t have, but on what you do have and make more of it. You can do this! 

Discover talents? 

If you are not sure what your talents, motivations, and blessings are, then it is useful to talk to a (career) coach and have a test taken. Yes, it costs money, but it is a worthwhile investment in yourself. It is about you being able to flourish, from your full potential, from your strength. 

Online coaching for women 

Are you often restless and do you think: is this it? And do you feel anything but satisfied and happy? You want to contribute to God’s kingdom … but how? Previous attempts have failed and work is no longer satisfying …

Then finally do what He has made you for! What that is? Discover that in my Hartenjager course:

In this 8-week practical online course, which you take at your own pace, you will discover who you are and how you can use your talents with confidence to lead a meaningful and joyful life from your heart.

Here you will find more information about my Hartenjager course. 

Get started yourselfbook tips 

If you still have doubts about coaching and would you rather read it yourself first? 

With this book you stay in control of your day: “A practical book with which you, very consciously in the morning, plan what you want to do with your talents that day. It ensures that you take control of your day and that you don’t let it slip by anymore. ” 

Another funny book to get is this one. It shows youWhat don’t I want in my life anymore?” The book helps you to look beyond the fixed frameworks if you want to get started withless” in your life. 

I hope you find them useful! 

Love, 

Stella 

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